What If They’re Not Narcissists; I’m Too Gullible

Worse, if my self-esteem needs manipulation.

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I struggle with the compromise aspect of relationships. Checking in feels like reporting — sheesh, I already do so much of this at work. And hey, I’m not keeping secrets. How else will I maintain my mysterious vibes?

If you’ve been a side meal, I understand.

If you don’t get (or agree) with this lifestyle, I get this, too.

I fell prey to the blaming game — the continuous cycle of attracting narcissists. So when Reddit user FinalEntertainment60 asked, “Women of Reddit who chose to be a ‘side chick’ to a taken man, why did you do it? How did it end?” the responses aligned with my emotional struggles.

I realized people with narcissism and low self-esteem will always exist. And always find their way to each other.

None of these are justified.

Only evidence that emotions need oxygen; fueling triggers adds intensity.

1. Mutual Uber-Specialness

“Do you know who I am?” Do you know what I’m capable of? “It’s your job.”

When seen as a low denominator blocker to narcissists, they’ll speak to you as such. Because how dare you not treat them like VIPs…