What Stops Your Happiness?

Kamran Ali
ILLUMINATION
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5 min readMay 1, 2024
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I am going to show you some factors that can kill your happiness:

1. Family Problems

Family problems are one of the devastating factors for your happiness.

It ruins your happiness.

Do not extend such problems for a long period.

Always work and find steps to resolve family problems as soon as possible.

Family problems hurt your psychological and mental health.

You come across different disturbing thoughts in your mind, your mind becomes unstable and full of poor guides that can direct you to beat your happiness.

It directs you to feel bad and increases your stress level.

There can be multiple family problems like you have not good relations with your brothers or sisters or your cousins and all kinds of relations.

You are doubting yourself, start blaming each other, having bad conversations with each other and all kinds of problems can lead you to feel bad and it may result in to increase in your stress level and beat your happiness.

All you have to do is get involved with your parents and elders or any respectable individual in your circle to fix such family problems.

You can solve such problems by yourself by making compromises with each other.

Compromise with each other to fix it.

Keep in mind, family tensions are bad practices, you should and you need to fix such problems as soon as possible to lower your stress level and help yourself to feel good and happy.

2. Overthinking

Overthinking is another problem that can accelerate your stress level and make you feel bad.

If you are overthinking, do not think much more about a subject, but rather solving problems.

This habit, of overthinking, can increase your stress level.

I would like to tell you that you should replace this habit, of overthinking with writing, what kinds of ideas come to mind, sit down and start writing on your ideas.

It helps you have a good insight into an idea.

Writing habits are much better and more effective than overthinking.

Overthinking does nothing but make you feel bad and anxious.

It leads to an increase in your stress level.

Overthinking itself is another problem that blocks your performance.

It does not allow you to boost your performance.

When you overthink any subject, you are making mistakes that can ruin your stress level.

When you come across such practice, warn yourself, and ask yourself, if you are going to make a massive mistake that can hide your happiness.

So, you should replace overthinking with writing skills.

I believe, writing is one of the good skills and alternatives of overthinking, it can help you to feel better and happy.

3. Bad Habits

Your bad habits are also one of the brutal drivers that can ruin your happiness.

It makes you feel bad.

Your bad habits are one of the massive factors that can disturb your happiness.

Some of the examples of bad habits like smoking, drinking alcohol, bad sleeping routine, and poor time management are some of the examples of bad habits that can disturb and result in feeling bad.

There are some of the various factors that lead you to find bad habits like your network, and what kinds of people you spend most of your time with.

Your daily routine, what kinds of things do you do daily? How do you prioritize your things? How much time do you spend with your family? How much time do you spend on the productivity of your things? All kinds of questions can make you clear what triggers you or force you to find bad habits that are the accelerators for your bad feelings.

If you do not overcome your bad habits, it may lead you to find yourself in troubled situations, you may feel distanced yourself from the world, and you may feel alone if you do not care for yourself who cares for you.

You need to care for yourself, you need to focus on yourself, and you need to invest in your health, productivity, and on your skills.

Put your maximum energy to stand out in the market.

Get yourself out of such bad practices and bad habits.

Once you succeed in overcoming such bad habits, the world is yours.

You can replace such bad habits with reading books, writing, meditation, walking, and all kinds of healthy habits that can help you to feel better.

So, stop running with such bad habits, think about yourself, focus on your health and your productivity, and build some good habits to make yourself feel good and healthy.

4. Bad Environment

Your bad environment is also one of the factors that can kill your happiness.

I believe your environment is one of the deciding factors of your feelings.

Your environment decides your journey and obstacles and how well you deal with such things your environment determines all kinds of things.

If you have a good environment like a good network, you have good mentors, and a good family who can guide you, good equipment and all kinds of stuff define your good environment.

If you have a bad environment like friends with bad habits, discouraging people around you, equipment that can disturb your health, and such kinds of things term is a bad environment.

All you have to do is just study your environment as early as possible and take action accordingly.

You can make your environment good and encouraging with the application of some good things like making good friends and being honest with them, don’t make friends just for the sake of exploitation, it does not only ruin your relationship but can also disturb your productivity.

Another thing that you can do is, find good mentors who can guide you throughout your journey, and learn from them as much as you can.

Books are also a good source to make your environment, you can place some good books in your surroundings, when you read books, such books do not allow you to do bad things and also books do not allow you to do injustice with your life.

Add and follow such things in your routine, you will get what you desire.

So, these are some of the factors that you can follow and implement in your life to make yourself stand out in the market.

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Kamran Ali
Kamran Ali

Written by Kamran Ali

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