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Why Coaching Isn’t the Same as Negotiating

Even if some coaches use negotiating tactics

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This week, I watched a documentary about the cult NXIVM. During this documentary, psychologists talked about the power of NLP to manipulate cult members, and this got me thinking about how different coaching modalities are used to manipulate and how far this manipulation is from coaching.




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Elaine Hilides

Elaine Hilides

Life coach from the inside out, a Three Principles Trainer, International Speaker, Author and Online Course creator.

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