Sep 2, 2022
Why introverts aren’t weird.
There is a lot more depth to introverted people than just seclusion and a lack of both communicative and social skills
For starters, there are four not-so-different types of introverts :
1 - Social type: Most likely to prefer seclusion and small groups over large gatherings. They will tend to be viewed as timid or reserved which may not often be the case.
2- Thinking type: Very introspective, creative, and imaginative type that may be seen as a daydreamer or a deep thinker. They can blend in big crowds as they are great communicators and observers.
3- Anxious type: Over analyzers and highly self-conscious beings that are likely to choose seclusion instead of exposure to the public as they may feel a lack of confidence and social skills.
4- Restrained type: Self-reflective and calculated. This type will tend to be reserved and cautious in their decision-making process.
This may not ring true for all introverts but some or most of those traits may seem to be fitting depending on your type.
They love deep connections.
Introverts love having deep and meaningful conversations and will quickly get turned off by a surfaced level interaction. They place a lot of value on using thought-provoking matters to drive a strong exchange that is equally beneficial to all parties involved. They enjoy a good challenge a love being intellectually and spiritually stimulated.
They are natural leaders.
They can make great leaders because of their ability to display deep and sincere empathy towards those that surround them. They often spend more time listening than they do speaking and are keenly observant, which is why they can make understanding and supportive confidants. Aside from being assertive and self-assured, a strong leader also needs to be able to show compassion and interest toward those he leads.
They enjoy companionship.
Although they seem to be spending a lot of time in their heads, they don’t necessarily always love being alone. Don’t get it wrong, they have a deep appreciation for the time they are able to spend by themselves but in truth, they genuinely enjoy being in the company of those they share a great symbiosis with. I personally, do spend a lot of time writing and reflecting on the state of my life, the world, and the emotions I carry and may display but being able to find a balance between being alone and being social is a healthy combination that I value.
They are self-reflective.
Spirituality is dear to me and I attach the utmost value to my spiritual journey. My introverted attributes make me more prone to finding deeper truths and relations with both myself and others. I search for a profound purpose and connection within and carry similar energies in my interactions with my surrounding which often leads to long-lasting relationships being at the center of my life and an appreciation for extensive reflective and meditative states.
They are self-conscious.
They don’t enjoy being the center of attention but still need to feel heard. After all, they are still human beings which only means that even with all of their introspective practices, they may still carry a strong sense of attachment toward their insecurities and a need to feel acknowledged at times. They can be extremely self-critical and forget to be to themselves what they are to the world; compassionate and kind.
They are wise and knowledgeable.
Their thirst for information makes them a wealth of knowledge as they never stop learning and are constantly on the hunt for controversial pieces of information and studies of many kinds. They are viewed as wise by their peers and will often share their opinion from a place of compassion or altruism without seeking validation.
They are creative.
Introverts are highly creative people. Spending an obscene amount of time in their heads may present challenges and create self-imposed barriers that can threaten their emotional states. This is why they tend to develop creative outlets in their seclusion as it helps them find constructive ways to release their thoughts and emotions.
They have unconventional views
They think outside the box. They have the ability to simultaneously function in two worlds and find ways to cope with both by constantly pushing boundaries and questioning their environment. They don’t settle for what is ordinary but would rather find ease in the unconventional approaches that can be presented to them.
They appreciate the present.
We find joy in visualization. I guess some may believe that this may not be a conducive approach to life but visualizing doesn't equal projecting. While we will tend to be more calculated and analytic, we have a great understanding of the laws of the universe and place great importance on observing and appreciating every present moment. The future isn’t something that we grow fearful of as we are aware that the journey is much more important than our destination.
From a personal standpoint, I have found that being an introvert living in a world full of distractions has supported me in remaining grounded on more than one occasion. Spirituality, being at the root of my life allows me to find deep answers in my introspective rituals. I don’t believe I belong to one specific type or group but I do believe I am an equal blend of all four. If you are an introvert, I sure hope this helps you feel less alone and more at home with yourself.
Thank you for reading.
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