Why You Should Stay Home and Never Travel — It’s Overrated Anyway
I heard this part should be a roadmap to the whole article. But we hate roads, and prefer staying at home, right?
Do you want the truth? Traveling can be a pain in the ass, indeed.
And there’s not enough time and money, and it’s selfish, getting away.
You have to pack your bags with all the essentials, and for many people that’s a lot of personal belongings. Then you have to make sure you know you’ll be sleeping in a comfortable place and eating food that suits your liking and diet, and that you’ll never meet strangers that don’t speak English, because how are you going to explain yourself to these foreign people?
The TV might be too small, and the weather too hot, and when you’re not home, all those things matter even more, right?
Traveling can be a luxury, yes, but for the most part, it’s everything outside of your comfort zone.
So the next time you’re thinking, “Should I buy a ticket to a new destination or spend my annual leave/gap year/retirement/home office at home, close to the people that matter to me and a routine that makes me feel comfy?”, please choose wisely. Travel can be scary, full of unexpected situations, and, at times, a tad bit uncomfortable, but it’s also:
The best things can happen while you’re on the road. It’s letting go of your worries and being as free as a bird in this world. It unlocks your inner child and makes you think creatively once again, so you start jumping into the air at small things like pretty pebbles and hikes with stunning vistas from above.
Especially if you crave new experiences, places, people, and sharing a good laugh with a local, whilst you explain yourself with hand gestures and words that eventually sound similar in both of your languages. Finding “your spot” in a completely new town, or the best gelato you’ve ever eaten in your life, and walking, walking throughout the whole day and not feeling a glimpse of tiredness, because you just need more of these endorphins.
Sitting on a new coast, gazing out to the sea, maybe cycling along a beautiful river. Meeting people back at your place, and unexpectedly, they feel like old friends you’re meeting for the hundredth time.
And, no. Please let go of the idea that travel means spending copious amounts of money and you need to see everything there is in a region, city, archipelago, or whatever. The best part of traveling is, that you don’t need to see everything in order to feel, experience the space, and make memories that last a lifetime.
You actually might need even fewer things and money than back at home, given you create a budget before your trip, and stick to it as best as you can. There are destinations where an overnight stay, groceries, public transportation, and restaurants are most probably a lot cheaper than in your own country, too. Usually, there are museums with no-entry-fee days as well. So in case you worry about the financial aspect of it, please start with research and end up in a new, beautiful destination.
Or don’t. And stay home. It’s up to you.
