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You Don’t Have to Reinvent Yourself — You Just Have to Return to Who You Were Before You Started Hiding
Somewhere along the way, we all start to disappear a little.
Not all at once. Not dramatically. Just… slowly.
We tone ourselves down.
We trade curiosity for productivity.
We silence the weird, creative, impulsive parts of ourselves in favor of being “respectable,” “strategic,” “grown-up,” “professional.”
We learn to fit in. To be appropriate. To say what people want to hear. To edit ourselves down to whatever version makes us easiest to love, hire, promote, or be around.
And eventually, we look up and wonder:
Where did I go?
Why do I feel so flat?
Why does everything feel like I’m performing my life instead of living it?
If you’ve ever felt that — if you’re feeling it now — here’s a truth that might just set you free:
You don’t need to reinvent yourself. You just need to come home to the parts of you that got buried.
1. Reinvention Culture Is a Lie
We live in a culture obsessed with transformation.
