You Were A Target, Not A Victim

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For those of us survivors, thrivers, and sadly for those still stuck in the NIGHTMARISH HELL that is the narcissistic relationship, it is not uncommon to hear a good percentage of people say that they were victims and are maybe victims of the narcissist.

However, I say this — NOT to take away from the pain and suffering a person has gone through and maybe going through — that you are NOT a victim, but a…