10 Psychological Tricks To Stop Overthinking Everything

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In today’s world, overthinking is a very frequent and rapidly expanding mental illness. Almost ninety percent of the world’s population has developed mental illnesses or is suffering from health concerns. Hypochondriasis affects about every second person, and overthinking is one of the leading causes of mental illness. Here, we’ll go over some easy but crucial techniques for completely removing overthinking from your life.

10 Magical Tricks to Reduce Overthinking and Anxiety

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1- Remove any negative assumptions

The human brain’s hypotheses and guesses about something are known as assumptions. With the assistance of an example, you can grasp this concept. Let’s say you do a task or take an exam, but the outcome isn’t yet known. Your brain eventually begins to consider the outcome. You have two options: either you will pass the exam and receive a result that meets your expectations, or you will fail the test and receive a result that does not meet your expectations. Or you may fail, which would be completely unexpected. You may also use Schrodinger’s theory to aid with this topic.

After considering the first option, your brain will be ecstatic. When you consider the second option, though, your brain will begin to terrify you with the outcome. The more you think about it, the more terrified you will become, and you will continue to draw negative sketches. Unexpected terror enters your subconscious mind without your knowledge and continues to terrify you. This unidentified worry causes unnecessary anxiety and stress.

There’s a quick and easy technique to quit overthinking. All you have to do now is stop thinking about the outcomes and move on. You only have to tell your thoughts, “I’ll see this later,” whenever a bad notion tries to enter your consciousness. All you have to do now is think optimistically and hope for the best. In the event that the outcome does not meet your expectations. Accept it as a learning experience and get back to work on it.

2- Write down your fears and insecurities

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This point is connected to the preceding one, and it is critical to refrain from overthinking. Simply grab a notepad and jot down all of your negative ideas, anxieties, and insecurities. For example, all the situations that you believe will harm you if they occur. You can also write down your fears.

Now you must write down all of the answers to those anxieties and build a plan to overcome them. The “Double Benefit” method is the most effective way to deal with any phobia. It is really nice with this method if the outcome matches your expectations. However, if it does not meet your expectations, you must devise a “plan B.” This makes the incorrect findings appear correct to you.

Because your brain understands that every conceivable outcome is in your favor, you can stop overthinking. You’re unafraid of anything. As a result, it ceases to overthink. Overthinking, as you may know, is caused by unpleasant thoughts that enter your head. As a result, you must use this method to toy with your head. The same method that your brain employs to cause you to overthink.

3- Focus on the present

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This is the most common cause of overthinking nowadays; in fact, it is not incorrect to state that it is the primary cause. This point is critical in order to avoid overthinking. There are two sorts of situations here. People who live in the past are the first category, while those who live in the future are the second.

People in the first group are still haunted by a terrifying or awful experience that occurred in the past. This might be a failure, a shattered romance, or something else. The second group is preoccupied with the future and constantly overthinks it. Both of these scenarios result in mental abnormalities.

Remove any rubbish ideas from the past and future from your head to relieve tension and overthinking. You can’t change the past by thinking about it all the time since it’s gone and will never come back. The only thing you have to do now is learn from your previous mistakes. After you’ve learned from your mistakes in the past, you must attempt to correct them in the present.

And the future has yet to arrive. You can only alter it if you stay in the current moment. Otherwise, simply thinking about it would cause you to feel tense for the rest of your life. All you have to do now is enjoy the moment and be grateful for the gifts you have. Also, you must work hard today in order to make tomorrow better than today.

4- Avoid Multi-Tasking

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The human brain’s nature or restriction is that it can only focus on one job at a time. You are straining your brain to multitask and overburden it in today’s environment, which is full of stress and hurry. When your brain does not provide the desired outcomes, you feel unhappy and begin to think of yourself as a loser.

You don’t seem to mind that the frantic pace is doing havoc on your head. Anxiety, worry, and overthinking are all symptoms of this injury. When you strain your brain to execute many tasks at once, it becomes unable to focus on any one of them. This leads to overthinking, and you begin to believe that your brain is ineffective in comparison to other people’s.

So now you don’t have to put your brain in an emergency mode all of the time and direct it to calmly complete all of the duties one by one. When you complete a task effectively, your brain produces “Dopamine,” a happy hormone that helps you forget about overthinking and anxiousness.

5- Enjoy every small moment of happiness to the fullest extent possible

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Another ninja technique for avoiding overthinking is to appreciate and live each moment to its utmost potential. Because if you don’t appreciate the simple things, your brain will remain sad and will create stress chemicals that will keep you miserable, and you won’t be able to enjoy the large things. Because all of the pleasant material is within, mental moods take precedence over external factors.

Because much of your happiness is tied to your own mental state, your brain does not release happy harmine when you overlook minor moments of delight and do not appreciate them freely. Your brain releases the happiness hormone and prepares you to enjoy great moments of happiness when you appreciate every single moment to the utmost and even a tiny thing makes you joyful.

So the next time a single event occurs in your life, you must appreciate it because when you are glad with minor occurrences, your brain does not have enough time to overthink and remains cheerful. When you attempt to keep your brain happy, it will do everything it can to keep you happy, and it has the power to do so. Psychological interventions, such as laughing therapy, are available. These therapies are just as vital for mental health as they are for physical health.

6- Look for the positives in negative compliments

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It is human nature to feel guilty when someone speaks poorly about someone. Criticism is an integral aspect of the human personality. It’s normal to be upset when someone criticizes you or attempts to bring out flaws in your work. You work till the wee hours of the morning to accomplish a task and believe you have it down pat, only to get criticism from others. People may also make unpleasant remarks about your personality.

These negative praises make you overthink that you aren’t doing anything correctly. In the second scenario, you overthink the bad aspects that others have mentioned are present in you. You begin to despise yourself as a result of your overthinking. You can, however, accept these praises in a favorable light. You must convince your mind that these negative praises are enhancing your possibilities.

You have to believe you wouldn’t have been able to remove that bad aspect if that individual hadn’t brought it up. You must have lived your entire life with that mistake. Similarly, you must believe that the individual who critiqued your work assisted you in removing all of the flaws that you could not have detected. Not only will this way of thinking help you avoid overthinking, but it will also help you accept every compliment positively.

7- Always Say “It’s Okay”

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After being damaged in a relationship, people begin to overthink things. Second, agoraphobics are prone to overthinking. They begin to believe that others are talking adversely about them before or after each performance. Cases involving relationships are fairly prevalent. These people are mentally attached to the relationships that have ended and are unable to leave them due to overthinking. They believe that life is meaningless without that shattered romance.

These modest psychological mind treatments will assist you quit overthinking about these illnesses if you suffer from them. You must first convince your mind that the individual has left your life and will never return. Though the time you spent with him/her was wonderful and unforgettable, it is now done. Now you must tell your mind, “It’s all right.” The person who has left your life also deserves to be forgotten, and you will find happiness without him or her.

You will be immediately out of that connection if you force your mind to embrace this, and it will never hurt you again. Now you must endeavor to enjoy your company while being content on your own. Because an Autophile’s pleasure is never contingent on others and he enjoys being alone. After that, you must mentally restrict every connection and ensure that it is alright if another person wants to depart.

Apart from relationships, individuals overthink when they make a mistake or do something wrong. You must convince your mind that you did not do something on purpose to cease this form of overthinking. Everything is OK because it was a mistake. “It’s OK; I’m not going to repeat or recall it.” Similarly, if you overthink anything in the future, simply remind your mind that it’s fine if you make mistakes.

8- Choosing Your Circle Wisely

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This is a crucial issue that is virtually always linked to psychiatric disorders. When your social circle or circle of friends is crowded, you are prone to overthinking because you are wasting your time with individuals who are usually negative. There is a very basic and straightforward solution to this problem. You must broaden your social network. You can’t alter the bad people in your life, but you can get rid of them.

Because attempting to change them is a complete waste of time, and you don’t have enough time as it is because you are now attempting to improve yourself. Negative individuals demotivate and demoralize you on a regular basis. When you tell them about your great aspirations and sophisticated ideas, they laugh at you and don’t say anything bad. These individuals have issues with every solution and have a propensity of pointing out black spots on white paper.

So you fall prey to overthinking when you squander your time with folks who are usually negative. There is a very basic and straightforward solution to this problem. You must broaden your social network. You can’t alter the bad people in your life, but you can get rid of them. Because attempting to change them is a complete waste of time, and you don’t have enough time as it is because you are now attempting to improve yourself.

Replace the negative individuals in your life with those that inspire you, increase your confidence, and encourage you. Because they believe optimistically, these folks will make your life happier. When you spend time with good people, you instantly feel happier, and your mind stops overthinking. So pick your friends carefully since they have a big influence on your mental health.

9- Make yourself mentally and emotionally strong

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As you may be aware, overthinking is inextricably linked to your mind and emotions, thus this point is critical. When you react fast and feel awful right away, even tiny things make you upset, and you begin to overthink everything. Mentally, if even minor statements and occurrences make you upset, you are mentally weak, which leads to overthinking.

You must have a firm grasp on your emotions to avoid overthinking and negative ideas. The “it’s okay” method is critical for emotional management. You should not be depressed about little matters and should convince your mind that everything is OK and that there is nothing to be concerned about. Small mishaps should not be taken seriously since they will help you maintain your mind cool and calm and prevent it from overthinking.

Maintain mental readiness for any emergency event and outcome. It will help you become mentally stronger if you remove “What if?” from your thinking and replace it with “it’s alright” and “it will be okay.” Because your brain stops overthinking when it is prepared for something, and when you are mentally prepared for any emergency circumstance, your brain just stops overthinking.

10- Give Deaf Ears To People’s Perceptions

As previously stated, the greatest happiness comes from inside. However, you will feel really horrible if someone speaks poorly about you at this moment. When someone says anything nasty about you, you begin to believe that he is correct.

What occurs is that this erroneous view penetrates your subconscious, and you compel your brain to believe that you have this problem by overthinking it. After that, you begin to alter yourself.

So, if you let other people’s perceptions control you and attempt to modify yourself in response to every viewpoint, you’ll always be troubled, and it’s all due to overthinking. To prevent these negative ideas, simply turn a deaf ear to other people’s negative thoughts while continuing to self-analyze.

People’s impressions of you no longer hurt or worry you when you stop listening to them. This is because if your ears don’t pay attention to a negative praise, your brain will as well, and you won’t take it seriously. You will quit overthinking and be joyful if you do not take it seriously.

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