Authentic and Toxic Positivity — Can You Spot the Difference?

LoveherMindset
ILLUMINATION’S MIRROR
5 min readMay 25, 2024

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You want to be more positive — but what does that mean, and how can you tell the difference between genuine positivity from toxic positivity?

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Having a positive mindset changed my life.

But I realized that for most of my formative years, it was fake positivity — Like two sides of the same coin, realizing that there are two contrasting approaches to maintaining a positive outlook was interesting.

Understanding toxic positivity was vital to the longevity of my well-being

What does Authentic Positivity Look Like?

This is a genuine and balanced approach to positivity that acknowledges both positive and negative emotions. It’s acknowledging your current situation with honesty and understanding.

Authentic Positivity allows you to feel and express a full range of emotions while maintaining an overall positive outlook.

Let’s look at some pros and cons to authentic positivity:

PROS:

  • Emotional Balance: It’s important to encourage your emotional intelligence by recognizing and processing both positive and negative feelings.

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LoveherMindset
ILLUMINATION’S MIRROR

Writer - Thoughts on mindset, wellness, and all the good things about self-care. www.lovehermindset.com