At The Bottom Of Patience, One Finds Heaven
Patience & tips on how to develop it
Patience, a challenge for most of us, is the ability to tolerate waiting, delay, or frustration without becoming agitated or upset. It is being able to control your emotions or impulses and proceed calmly when faced with difficult or frustrating situations.
The word patience is derived from the Latin word pati which means to suffer, to endure, to bear.
Needless to say, patience is not easy to attain, and it’s probably harder now to achieve than ever before. In today’s world of ‘instant everything’, technological advancements and readily available credit have allowed us to obtain, experience, and consume practically anything we want — almost immediately. Do we even need to be patient anymore?
Well, if we want to reach our goals, have successful relationships, and achieve personal peace, the answer is a resounding yes!
Anything worthwhile and of importance cannot take place right away. It takes time, dedication, and effort to achieve; so patience is a virtue even in this day and age.
The Benefits of Developing Patience
- Reduces stress levels and makes you a happier, healthier person.
When you learn and practice patience you don’t get as angry, stressed, or overwhelmed. You are more in control of your emotions and in a better position to deal with difficult situations with ease and poise. This promotes longevity and makes you a happier, healthier person.
2. Results in better decision-making.
When you’re patient you take the time to assess the situation, see the big picture, and weigh any pros and cons. The chances of making a big mistake lessen because you avoid making it in haste. Taking the time to problem-solve requires patience and deliberation.
3. Helps develop understanding, empathy, and compassion.
You are automatically more understanding and compassionate with others when you yourself are patient. Patient people take the time to process what they go through and can determine what it takes to overcome obstacles, so they are more understanding of others. This results in better, more fulfilling relationships with spouses, friends, children, and bosses.
4. Helps you understand and appreciate the process of growth.
As mentioned earlier anything worthwhile takes time and effort to achieve. As the old saying goes “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” Planning, growth, evaluation, and measurement all take time, and taking time takes patience.
Tips on How to Develop Patience
⮚ Take a day when you make patience your goal for the entire day.
Make a concerted effort to take your time and think about everything you do, be mindful, and live at the moment.
At the end of the day, observe all how you’ve made smarter decisions, got along better with others, and actually understood what took place. Learn to do it daily. Developing patience is much like physical exercise because it requires persistence and effort.
⮚ Slow down.
If you tend to rush around and try to hurry things up, want things done immediately, and can’t wait for things to take their natural course, STOP.
Take several deep breaths before you act or make a move. For example, if you’re in a long lineup at the grocery store or in heavy traffic, decide to pause and not get worked up. Do some isometrics, listen to the radio, or just enjoy the view. Getting impatient won’t make things move along any faster, so why get worked up for nothing?
⮚ Practice delaying gratification.
When you want to reach for that dessert, second drink, or buying your tenth pair of red shoes, stop and think about it first. Maybe you don’t need or want any of them that badly after all. You can save yourself some money or added calories.
⮚ Practice thinking before you speak.
At times, we blurt out the first thought that comes into our heads without considering the consequences. If we’re patient, pause and go over what we want to say, we can avoid hurting or offending others.
Situations for which patients are a must:
✔ Reaching most goals
✔ Losing weight
✔ Having a baby
✔ Bodybuilding
✔ Becoming a professional career person such as
doctor, lawyer, engineer
✔ Becoming a top athlete
✔ Becoming a virtuoso in any musical field
✔ The healing of any wounds or illnesses
✔ Getting over loss or tragedy
Patience is definitely a valuable character trait to develop. It may appear to be passive, however, it is an active, purposeful, and necessary form of self-discipline. Without patience many of our actions would be counter-productive and ultimately much time and energy would be wasted spinning our wheels. Surely, patience is a time-tested virtue.
So, I hope after reading this complete article you will be able to develop patience in yourself. Thanks for reading this complete article. If you found this article helpful and interesting then, kindly leave a comment.
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