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When Not To Say “I Love You”

Words matter and timing is everything.

Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash

I haven’t had the best history with expressing my love for the men in my life nor have I been especially great at differentiating lust, attraction, or addiction from actual love. I have said “I love you” to three different men during the course of my life, and every single time, I should have waited or maybe never said it at all. Every single time.




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Alecia Kennedy

Alecia Kennedy

Trader·writer·photographer·truth-seeker·all around curious person.

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