9 Top Signs of a Cult Leader

Since anyone can be drawn into a cult, protect yourself by knowing the signs of a cult leader

Sandra Pawula
Thoughts And Ideas

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Cult is a strong word. A word I never wanted to use.

People in cults drink poison-laced kool-aid and die together. People in cults release saran gas on the subway. People in cults marry at the direction of their leader.

That wasn’t me. How could it be a cult?

Cults, however, take many forms. Some are totalistic as in the cases mentioned above. But often, the workings can be far more subtle.

I was in a “high-demand group” for more than a decade, a phrase I prefer to the more startling “cult.” My spiritual teacher, let’s call him Frank, was an expert manipulator. I trusted him completely, fully convinced he would never harm a soul.

You’ll probably shake your head sideways, but the same could happen to you.

Because no one sets out to join a cult. They attend a personal development weekend, a meditation talk, or a political speech. They feel intrigued, inspired, or excited by what they hear.

You see, a cult has a positive facade and a seemingly higher purpose or irresistible benefit that draws you in. Once you’re sold, you start down a dark path without even knowing…

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Sandra Pawula
Thoughts And Ideas

Essays to calm your mind, ease your heart and access your inner wisdom. I love Hawaii, mindfulness, and living with ease. https://sandrapawula.substack.com/