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Philosophy
Anything Can Be An Advantage
What’s holding you back that could be a hidden source of strength?
“Just as the nature of rational things has given to each person their rational powers, so it also gives us this power — just as nature turns to its own purpose andy obstacle or any opposition, sets ts place in the destined order, and co-opts it, so every rational person can convert any obstacle into the raw material for their own purpose.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 8.35
Perception Is Everything
A job loss can lead to a more prestigious opportunity. A new boss/leader can lead to quality and invaluable mentorship. A divorce can lead to profound personal development. Death can lead to enlightenment that changes the way you do life going forward. A breakup can lead to you becoming more empathetic, forgiving, and grateful. Being homeless can lead you to become financially independent. Growing up in an abusive home can lead to your story healing others, which leads to your healing.
All the things we perceive as unfortunate events and disadvantages could be perceived as the opposite if we learn how to use them most productively. Everything is ultimately a matter of opinion; whether we deem something positive or negative does not make it fact.