You Are Fucking Beautiful
Yes you!
I’m constantly amazed by how unattractive other people think they are, when they are clearly fucking beautiful. It baffles me. It’s a rare person I meet who I do not find something attractive about them — and the ones I can’t find anything attractive about are usually kind of hateful people, like the ones who enjoy being hateful. So if ye are hateful and have no desire to change that move on — this post is not for you.
The rest of ye have been sold a lie. Someone, somewhere told you that you weren’t enough of something…or maybe that you were too much of something. Not pretty or handsome enough, not thin enough, not smart enough, too outspoken or upfront, not worthy, just not good enough. Not right. Maybe it wasn’t said explicitly to you, maybe you just gleaned this from EVERY MAGAZINE YOU EVER READ, or from the unattainable and narrow range of person you were told fits the societal idea of “beauty”. Like thin and blond if you’re a woman or built and “handsome” if you’re a guy. But there is such a tiny sliver of humanity that fits into that mould —in fact it excludes the majority of the world’s population. And also it’s just a marketing idea — so the good news is that we do not have to accept that as our reality.
I want every human (cept the ones who are actively choosing hatefulness, cause they aren’t open to hearing this) to know how flipping beautiful they are. No one on this earth brings all that you bring. No one on earth can do all that you do, no one has all the gifts you have. You are unique and wonderful and that is beautiful.
Your body is beautiful — it has carried unique you and protected you and kept you warm and safe — it is fucking beautiful. It’s lumps and bumps and moles and hair and fat — all of it is beautiful. The moment you decide that you’re going to love it is the moment you free yourself from the crappy unrealistic expectations that society/other people try and put on you. Just say no to that. And say yes to being the most self loving you can.
And your face is beautiful too. One of the most attractive men I ever met was a long way from society’s idea of male beauty — but he was such a gorgeous human inside that everyone who knew him fell a bit in love with him. Knowing him was one of the first signs for me that we’re all sold a big fat, dirty lie about beauty. He was fucking beautiful, in all the ways that matter. (And I mean beautiful in that I want to have sex with you kind of way, or even just hang out with you loads of sex isn’t on the table kind of way). And then I discovered that all you really need is a belief in your own worth, then it doesn’t matter a bit what other people think about you! How great is that!
And not only do YOU have the perfect, most wonderful body, and THE most beautiful face, but I also want to tell you that you are a beautiful person and the world is SO much better because of all you bring to it. You bring so much, all your experiences have lead you to the now you — no one else can do exactly what you do, how you do it. You bring a unique joy to people you meet just by being you — no one else can do that! Plus you are SO worthy. Worthy of love, of prosperity, of happiness, of kindness and of love. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Whatever your passion or joy, get started now. Our dear world needs more people like you, making art, making love, making connections, making positive changes in the world. You know best how you can serve the world by being you. Go do it. We need your beautiful self ❤
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