How to spot an INFJ

Ratna Srivastava
INFJ life
Published in
3 min readNov 2, 2024

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INFJs are extremely rare. They constitute only about 1–2 % of the total world’s population. This is how to spot them:

They are somewhat mysterious looking with a strange other-worldly aura, and with eyes that stare into your very soul.

They are usually very quiet in group situations but chatty in one-on-one dialogues.

They say something brilliant and then trip over thin air.

They freak out when they go into sensory overload.

They ghost everyone they know when hurt, even if only one person hurt them.

they see everyone as equal regardless of their age, race, gender, sexuality, skin colour, physical beauty, education, popularity or wealth.

They will give you the best advice and then not follow it themselves which stems from them not believing that they are deserving of the best outcomes.

Their written words are soulful and rhythmic whilst their spoken words can be chaotic.

They would feel unique or different even if they are surrounded by their own clones.

They are very deep, intense, selfless, moody, logical, protective, and wise.

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Spotting an INFJ can be challenging because they tend to be private and reserved. However…

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Ratna Srivastava
Ratna Srivastava

Written by Ratna Srivastava

Author of Emit Eht (Science-Fiction/Metaphysical and Visionary Romance) Children’s Author, Thinker, Philosopher. Editor R Blogs, R Quotes.