That moment when you wanna give up!
Your daily schedules, morning routine to those same old monotonous night times, sometimes become a hinder to our living. We have no choices left, than following the vitality of life. That moment when life offers you with failures and you in search of motivation lack the choices of living.
Yea, this happens, mainly with many teens of our ages. We know, this is infact the time of living with freedom of choices and experiences. But, when we can’t handle all those peer pressures, career choices and academics, we just become frustrated. Trynna copy others, we get fascinated by social medias and those glamorous photos we see on Instagram and Facebook. Oh! we see the perfection in the lifestyle of people and start to compare them with ourselves. Oh damn! we see so many faults in ourselves. We find the imperfection rolling around our circumstances and we get in trouble.
Fascinated by the era of big bikes and scooters, we just want them. No matter how, but we want them. We want branded clothes and visit amazing places. Capture photos with wanting qualities. Omygod, world has changed somehow in terms of development. We want the same lifestyle, we see in the photos of people, the limitation sometimes become desperation.
The bitter truth is, yeas, its human nature to be unsatisfied in the way you are, but its not equal to possible to fulfill all those choices for every one of us. These thing tend to hurt us, like somewhere in our subconscious mind we take a burden of humiliation. This is exactly the phase, where we are immature even if we try to show our maturity.
Next comes the career choices and the phrases that people throw to us in our difficult situation. The time when you are continuously trying, but your work and deeds are never offered with praises. There comes a time when you are going with your comfort of interest but overthinking rules you every time. The time when you have no work and you keep on thinking nasty things looking at the same place for 2 hours. Have this ever happened to you all? Yeas, I have gone through the same phase where I would keep on staring at the same old wall of my house, thinking about all my imperfections.
Awhhh! It’s really very hard to go through the same situation. The situation when you feel lonely and just don’t wanna share your inner instincts to anyone. You tend to laugh, but somethings pinching you hard from inside. You keep on thinking about life when you get a free time. You just want peace and freedom. You want to be far from people and their thoughts that you just don’t need at all. Somewhere in the meditating world, we want a sound sleep.
But, this actually doesn’t happen. You know, you have to move on with all your imperfections. All you need is to be surrounded by people you completely trust on, and go through all the strong aspects of your life. Consult your problems with your brothers/sisters if you don’t feel comfortable to share with your parents. Write your problems in a piece of paper and tear it, it actually works on healing your confusions. Never get demotivated by the clingy words of people, because every thing in this world has two sides, forward and backward, so is the thoughts and compliments of people, so chill move on !
Just be yourself, never change for the visions of people. Spend time for yourself, working for your physique, your hygiene, your personal skills, go through positivity and enroll positive people in your life for better vibes, and never smile when you actually are going through a pain inside. Let your emotions to spread, because tomorrow is actually gonna be a brighter day.
Find self motivation in yourself, so that you don’t need people around you when you feel low, you can just hold both your hands, cuz they are the lifetime support.
