Most people are good at something, but not everything
John is a tall, super-fit guy in his late 40s — the only man in my Pilates class. He’s got a big, friendly personality and some big, muscley arms to match. John does just fine in a room full of women, even though he’s taller and stronger than the rest of us. There are a lot of things we do where he adds extra weight, but John is also not very good at side-ups…


