“Rape’s Not Really That Big A Deal”

At least that’s what he told me

Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash

The Women:Yeah, well, I fucking think that’s bullshit. Everything about that stupid “crime” is utter bullshit, including pretending it really hurt the victim. It was entirely in her head.” The profile name alone should have tipped me off.

Me: Saying that having your bodily autonomy violated without your consent doesn’t…




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Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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