A man who takes the initiative to contact you at these two times is really in love with you.

2bebetter
Inside The Mind Of A Writer
5 min readFeb 26, 2024

Read the quote, “Someone who loves you will reach out to you.”

Hot love, he will take the initiative to spend time with you, even if you can’t meet face to face, but also send you messages, and calls, can’t wait to be with you twenty-four hours a day.

Once a girl is in love, she will lose judgment, as long as the other party’s attitude is a little tender, they will not care about anything.

But the real love is unable to disguise, through the small details can be seen.

A man is always in this two-time initiative to contact you, is love you, encountered to cherish.

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01: Communicate with you first after an argument

it is written in the poem: people in this life, maybe love, hate, maybe miss, maybe pass by, when all the past is gone, all attempts to redeem the way are futile and pale.

When he does not love you, anything you do is pale. Just in life, many girls do not understand this.

When you are together, he does give you the tenderness you want, but the other party’s love is not firm, and cannot withstand any test.

You, however, give it all you have, and in the end, you will only feel the pain and disappointment.

Heterosexuals get along, a men will always be with each other after the quarrel, the first time to contact you, be patient and communicate, such behavior is love you.

Sandy and her boyfriend have been together for almost two years, she is a particularly insecure girl.

At the beginning of the relationship, she did not give too much emotion but spent their minds on their career.

Many people around her felt that she could find a better match, and for a while, Sun Tong began to hesitate.

However, Sandy slowly realized that her boyfriend’s love for her could not be replaced.

She doesn’t have a good temper and is especially sensitive, often exposing her worst side to her boyfriend.

When they quarreled with each other, Sun Tong’s emotions were out of control, and she would always say things that hurt her self-esteem.

However, her boyfriend would never go into a cold war with her. During the daytime when they quarreled, at night he would take the initiative to contact Sun Tong and would patiently communicate with her.

A man is always willing to put down the so-called face and have further communication with you after you have quarreled, which shows that he loves you and has identified you in this life.

After Sun Tong saw her boyfriend’s love, she completely changed her view of the relationship.

She could indeed have found a richer man, but no one in this world can be so tolerant of her temper except her boyfriend.

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02: Always think of yourself when you achieve something

it is said, “There are always people in this world who don’t like you, and this is something that can never be changed. Because it’s one thing to be good or bad, and another to like it or not.”

In love, no matter how much you give, there are still people who don’t love you. A man who is false to his love will only think of you when life is low, and you need help.

He doesn’t show up because of how much he loves you but just wants some emotional comfort from you.

A man who loves you will not take the initiative to contact you when his life hits a low point.

On the contrary, he succeeded at the moment, will always think of you, and will want to give you a happy future, this behavior is true love.

Nandy and her first boyfriend dated for five years and finally broke up. At that time, they were very much in love, but the boyfriend’s family conditions were really bad, and Nandy's parents did not agree.

After the breakup, Mom and Dad always introduce her to the object, but Xu Nianxin still can’t forget her ex-boyfriend.

tommy dared to break through and finally achieved success in his persistence, the process of entrepreneurship is very difficult, but he has always had a belief in his heart, which is to want to be with the person you like forever.

Two years later, Tommy succeeded, he immediately shared this joy with Nandy.

He had secretly sworn in his heart that if he always did nothing in this life, then he would not bother her again.

But as long as he had the stamina to give the other person a happy life, then he would not give up.

A man will always think of you after he has achieved something, he won’t mind that your condition today is not worthy of him, but he wants to give you the best things in the world, which means that he has always loved you deeply, and has never thought of loving others.

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Love is inevitably divided, every experience is growth, want to judge each other on how much love you have, from these two details can be seen.

The person who has left does not need to be missed, the person who truly loves you, must be cherished.

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