The mindset of worrying about gains and losses in love is a manifestation of women's concern.

2bebetter
Inside The Mind Of A Writer
4 min readNov 15, 2023

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In a relationship, women generally fall into a deeper state, putting themselves in a state of worrying about gains and losses. However, such a state is not conducive to emotional development and may even cause harm to women. How do women feel about worrying about gains and losses in love?

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The mindset of being concerned about the benefits and drawbacks of love.

1. Fear

When I find myself deeply invested in a relationship without reciprocal feelings, a sense of insecurity starts to grow within me. Over time, this feeling evolves into fear, a fear of not getting the emotional security I crave. It becomes a constant worry about the gains and losses in our connection.

In the world of love, women will not feel much sense of security when they love deeply and get no response. And this sense of security will deepen over time, making her feel fearful in her heart. This situation will cause her to worry about gains and losses in her relationship with you.

2. Inferiority mentality

In the vast world of love, it’s true that there are no restrictions, but the reality often introduces boundaries. When…

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