The most hurtful three things, more cruel than a man’s life, women should not do!

2bebetter
Inside The Mind Of A Writer
4 min readFeb 7, 2024

Many relationships come to a screeching halt, not necessarily because of betrayal, but because of disappointment to the point of desperation.

A lot of women always think that having a love can be with the lover never give up, and thus forget how to operate the relationship, but this is wrong.

The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you’re doing and that you’ve got a good idea of what you’re doing.

Especially in the day-to-day small things, these three things most hurt the man’s heart, once the woman does, the relationship is at stake, advise us all can timely reflection.

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01: Treating his family harshly

Every woman wants to marry a husband who is positive and caring, with whom she can form a happy family.

But we often forget that such men are often extremely filial, and put parents in the heart.

Since you have chosen to be his wife, you should also respect his family, rather than be unreasonable, so that the husband more and more cold heart.

After marriage, the two families are intertwined, and even if there is no blood relationship has become inseparable.

In this family, no one is the absolute master, we have to cooperate to form an indestructible whole.

Treating each other’s families well is the best investment we can make in our relationship, and it will result in a grateful husband and a harmonious family.

Do not ask women in this marriage can be on the husband’s family fine, after all, we are all mortal, and simply can not do it, but at least do not use the worst temper to hurt each other.

To know, the family is also a part of the man if you love him, you should love the house and make him happy, I believe that he will also be the same true love to you.

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02: Belittling his work

As a human being, we all want to be prosperous and make a lot of money, but the reality is full of woes.

Everyone can only find the best job within their means and support their family.

As lovers, the worst thing to avoid is to belittle each other’s work and bury each other’s contribution, which will make the other person feel that he/she has not been rewarded and will lose confidence in the relationship.

What puts out the flame of love is often our disparagement of the other half and blame.

When you have different perceptions of life, you should communicate with each other rationally instead of forcing yourself on each other.

If you want to catch a man’s heart, you have to understand the man’s work better, he will work hard for you, we should also have more patience.

The relationship of mutual support will go farther and farther.

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03: Comparing him to other men

Men are creatures with excellent faces, they want to be recognized by society, and they also want to give their other half a good home.

When the woman always takes her and other men to highlight its failure, men will feel dignified, they need a woman’s support and encouragement, when we put down the comparison, and cherish all that we have, men will be satisfied.

Each family has a different home, other people’s husbands and then good may not be suitable for you.

Never beautify a road you’ve never traveled before, cherish the present is the best quality.

To believe that the man who loves you is not perfect, but he has given you everything you can give, you live in love is lucky enough.

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A hundred years of practice to cross the same boat, a thousand years of practice to share the same pillow.

To be able to sleep together is the fate of a lifetime, to believe that fate has chosen the best partner for you, and never use the above three things to hurt each other.

The life you envy may not be perfect, maybe others envy you for having such a partner.

Respect each other, understand each other, and we will eventually dig out the most wonderful love in ordinary life.

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