One Thing I Wish Men Knew About Women

How men and women look at the relationship differently

Kristina Segarra
Inspired Writer

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Photo by Vitor Pinto on Unsplash

As I approached my late 20’s, I didn’t just want to date — I wanted to settle down, marry, and have children. I felt my biological clock was ticking. I was in a desperate search to find my true love.

In my personal life, I had been unlucky in a few relationships before I settled down in marriage. Like everyone, I’d hit rough spots in my life.

Thoughts started creeping to my mind: “Will I ever marry?” “At what age will I have my first child?” “Or maybe I’ll settle for being single for the rest of my life.”

Marriage was on the other end of the bridge I still didn’t cross.

Then I started dating this one guy.

We were in a serious relationship and we both wanted to have family and kids in the future. We had been seeing each other for almost two years.

We both had feelings for one another and loved being in each other company. As time went on, I started to think more about where our relationship was going. While I certainly enjoyed my time and had fun, one reality never evaded me — I was getting older.

I needed to have a serious conversation with my partner about our relationship. So, one day I delicately popped the…

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Kristina Segarra
Inspired Writer

Freelance health/wellness/self-improvement writer, musician, mom of two boys. Join my newsletter: https://self-empowerment-club.ck.page/a9d23100d4