Invisible Illness
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Invisible Illness

The Gap Between Superficial and Intimate Relationships

What is the fear of intimacy? Where does it come from? How can it be overcome?

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When you are an abuse victim, emotions become a weapon used against you. You learn to bury them inside, never to be seen or heard. You begin feeling that your feelings are invalid, that you cannot trust your judgment, and it is safer to not…




We don't talk enough about mental health.

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Doreen Barker

Doreen Barker

Creator of Stories of Food Production, Farm Girl, Writer of Life and Mental Health, Abuse Warrior and Mentor

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