Aunty, I’m 13, Bi, and I Want to Come Out

Should I? Can you help me?

James Finn
Nov 10, 2018 · 7 min read
Gay teen actor Troye Sivan’s famous coming-out video. Click here for some sensible talk from one LGBTQ kid to other LGBTQ kids

OK, bub. Hold your horses. (Deep breath, Jimothy!) Here we go —

Worrying about how your parents might react can be stressful! From How to Come Out to Your Parents

See what she says —

As for dads?

But safety first!

Find some support —

I think you’re gonna be just fine!

Ask anything! Love, sex, dating, hooking up, Tinder and Grindr culture, and HIV/STD concerns. Life with your straight family. Coming out. Or not.


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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

James Finn - The Blog

Collected Writings. Stories and ramblings from a long-time LGBTQ thinker and activist.

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