How Can a Gay Teen Know If He’s Ready to Kiss?

On attraction, consent, and knowing your body

Dear Aunty Jimothy,

I’m a 16 y/o gay guy in high school. I’ve seen you answer questions from LGBT teenagers, so I hope you will answer mine. I only know one other gay guy at school. Besides my cousin, he’s the only gay person I’ve ever met. Thing is, he’s been asking me out for weeks



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James Finn

James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.