How This Teen Lesbian Can Avoid Conversion Therapy

Heartbreak, loss, and recovery

Dear Aunty Jimothy,

I’m a 19-year-old lesbian, and my girlfriend just broke up with me. We were so in love and planned to get married after college. She’s ended 4 years of online dating, and all my old feelings of being worthless and unlovable are back.



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James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.