My Boyfriend Won’t Come Out

Should I be his dirty little secret?

Can’t embrace your guy in public? Time for some hard thinking! Photo by Thiago Barletta on Unsplash

Dear Aunty Jimothy,

I’m seeing a guy who’s 34 and deep in the closet. We’re about the same age, and I have a feeling he’s about to ask me to be his boyfriend. I don’t know if that’s a good idea since I’ve been out since I was 15. Any advice?

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James Finn

James Finn

James Finn is a columnist for the LA Blade, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.