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Don’t Change Yourself to Please Other People

Look for people who like you just the way you are.

The yellow rose represents friendship. Photo by Sindy Strife on Unsplash

I’ve always said that I don’t care what people think about me. Sadly, I do care what others perceive of me as a person to an extent.

If I find out that someone doesn’t like me, I’ll try to figure out why and see if I can fix the problem and change their perception of me.




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