Shapeshift.

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Jianda Monique @Medium
2 min readAug 1, 2015

If your physical appearance or other identifying characteristics are not deemed “acceptable” and you internalize the idea(s) on any level, you’ll manifest situations to help you unlearn the idea(s). They’ll look like hurt, stress, pain or conflict.They’ll seem unpleasant.

No matter how you shapeshift yourself or your experience, acceptance is mandatory all along your journey.

Every step of the way.

Why is this mandatory?

Hating What you are and buying, effecting or adapting a “fix” to change things doesn’t include anything about acceptance.

Without acceptance, the self-hate will repopulate.

Try to release these mistakes in thought with a compassionate consciousness.

Tease the threads apart; untie the knots.

Accept, too, that change is possible (or you’ll create a loving change and destroy it immediately thereafter. So you’ll have to start all over again).

Many little disharmonies experienced have to do holding in so many free-floating anxieties.

These little joy-stranglers come from holding onto all the little suffocating energies and mistaken ideas.

We’re Good souls. We want to do the right thing, so we hold onto the lies thinking somehow we can make those true or fully refute them. Defend ourselves.

Rather than dropping them.

(So overwhelming.)

Whelm Your Life With Proactively Harmonious Change(s) In Thought(s).

There are elements in life you cannot change, but that you can live with and work with. You cannot change others’ ideas and thoughts.

There are elements in life that you can change, but you lie to yourself that you cannot live with yourself or work through the changes. You can only change your own ideas and thoughts.

Focus on your own harmonious change(s).

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