Virtual network is a beautiful lie

Jingfang Luo
JN2507 UnitedMedia
Published in
3 min readFeb 12, 2019
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Dating online may be an interesting experience with everything dealt with properly. If not, it will surely be rather boring. That’s why dating online should be made carefully rather than casually, which can lead to a large difference between lifelong happiness and lifelong loneliness.

The popularity of dating online lies in that it’s a more efficient way to meet people with more advantages over those traditional ones. However, much caution is still needed when people date with those who are almost fully strange. To increase your experience concerned, the most important point to keep in mind is to keep level-headed.

As we all know, in fact, online dating is a very convenient way to meet someone to date. Since most family today have computers and internet connection in them, accessing the internet seems to be very easy. Even some mobile phones have the capability to browse the internet.

n addition, online dating is also bad for an adult. Since we are living in a cyber world now, you will there is a fair chance to meet Mr. Right online. But in fact, there are all kinds of people. An experience of online dating of a young woman said, there are 8 kinds of man she has seen in the internet. Firstly, married man, this group of men is bound to feel lonely while the family is miles away, a few of them contacted me because they wanted to make more friends and have a social life in somewhere. Secondly, ONS man, ONS is the acronym which stands for “One Night Stand”, it is not meant for the true love. Thirdly, boring guys, it’s quite a common trait among Chinese people which guys are very self-conscious and shy, so they don’t make interesting conversation and their creativity is like dormant volcano. Besides, Shorter guys, Younger guys, Guys with low self-confidence, insincere guys, sham guys, there could be more, like guys couldn’t decide what they want for life, guys who use other people’s photo to introduce themselves, guys who make up stories to escape from first date, guys who can’t chat in English while living in foreign country for 9 years, guys who keep asking me which part of shanghai I am from etc. All this kinds of guys can’t give you a true love by online dating in the end. Because you don’t know his truth, then you will be hurt deeply at last.

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To make most appointments successful, you must keep to the following common sense and stay alert to some people.

1. Begin it cautiously. We suggest pushing the process slowly. Keep alert to somebody much too adult.

2. Try to use anonymity. Never throw away your name, e-mail address, home address, telephone number and other private information in Web files or until you have known him to a great extent.

3. Ask for photos. A photo can give you his appearance, which contributes to an exact sense of whether to see him or not.

4. Talk by phone. Telephone conversations can reveal much of his skill in personal and social communication.

These advice can help you gain pleasure as well as feel safe while dating online. So, when you are on the Internet, please learn these tips by heart.

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