No Second Chances: The Power of Preparation and First Impressions

Namariki
2 min readJun 14, 2024

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Movie: A Second Chance (2015)

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Have you ever heard someone say, "I will be better next time," or "If I get a second chance, I will perform my best"? I'm sure you have. These statements are often made by those who fail to achieve their goals. They reveal a sense of unreadiness and a tendency to dismiss the importance of preparation.

The reality is, there is rarely a second chance. Believing in a second chance can create a false sense of hope that mistakes on the first try can be easily corrected later. However, relying on a second chance can become an excuse for failure. If you get an opportunity, seize it and make the most of it. Be prepared.

If you believe you will get a second chance, you may not take the first attempt seriously. This mindset can lead to complacency and irresponsibility. On the other hand, if you perceive that there is no second chance, you will be more likely to give your best effort the first time around.

Consider a singing competition that uses a knockout system. In this competition, every contestant who loses is eliminated. This high-stakes environment ensures that every contestant is well-prepared and fiercely competitive. The ones who are unprepared are quickly knocked out. Imagine this scenario in your mind.

Now, think about how your words can significantly impact your life. During a job interview, if you falter and stumble over your words, it won't help your chances. Similarly, if you're on a date and you mumble or murmur, it can create a poor impression. People often judge you based on your words and how you present yourself.

First impressions are crucial. If you fail to make a good impression the first time, it can be challenging to secure a job or a second date. This is why people emphasize the importance of first impressions. So, always strive to give your best to create a positive impression because people often value you based on how you communicate. Good communication can lead to a good impression and open doors to new opportunities.

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Namariki

An amateur who want to change people through writing