That’s okay

“I don't know where it will lead me yet, all I have to do is moving forward”

What if I told you that having a perfect life is not about always being happy and being flawless. The reality is we can understand true happiness if we have experienced sadness. We will value happiness when we understand what it cost. Life is paradoxical.

Being perfect human is to be imperfect in many ways, and a perfect life is when you embrace your imperfection.

When life gets tough it’s always okay to pause, seek help and begin again. There's always better tomorrow. It’s okay to not be okay. Sometimes it’s okay to let sadness took over. But then again, don’t forget to move forward. Just like Dory said “just keep swimming” whether you know where it will lead you or not just keep moving forward.

All we have to do is moving forward and happiness will surely await us somewhere in the future. You’re always going to be better off, even if it doesn't feel like it in the moment.

Life often feels so boring, and being ordinary sometimes seems like no fun, but that’s the meaning of being alive.

Being alive means that sometimes we cry and sometimes we laugh. Sometimes we’re hoping, and sometimes we’re hurting. We repeated those again and again just like the moon and the sun rises and set. Time doesn't always heal every wound, but time teaches you how to carry them, each day the weight gets little bit lighter and someday it’ll all be okay.

“Times always passes at the same speed, and it’ll wash it all away just like always.”

Haven’t we been there before? where something seems impossible, where we cry the night away, where life feels suffocating. Look at us now, we’re going to be okay. Happiness is temporary, so are misery. Nothing going to last forever. If you strong enough to make it through yesterday, you are going to be even stronger to make it through any other day.

When you think your world is in shamble it’s okay to made it up one by one. You are going to fail another thing and that means you are going to learn yet another lesson.

Especially for the teenagers, or someone on their 20s like me. You still got so much time, what matter now isn’t about being perfect. In fact, we aren’t supposed to come near perfection. You are not done meeting all the people that will matter in your life, you are not done visiting places you going to love, you are not done building a home where you going to dance every morning, most importantly you are not done being alive.

“I don’t think I’m enough to fit in”

You are enough.

You going to living your life to the fullest, you are going to marry the love of your life and you are going to be more than special to someone.

Just because you are having a bad day, doesn't mean you have a bad life. when you think about being not enough at something, maybe that’s because your journey right now is about the other side of life.

This article is highly inspired by a song called “That’s Okay” by D.O

The song is about embrace your true self and it’s okay to just let life going on its own flow. It’s one of my favorite songs, and it has a really pretty and comforting meaning

If you are having a hard time, I highly recommend you listen to “That’s Okay” by D.O

Thank you for reading this, and I wish you a good day.