The opposite of love: Can differences in love come together?

Do you trust the differences in love?

_zriel
Journal Kita
Published in
4 min readMar 15, 2024

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Yash, let’s talk about the Elemental Movie by Disney Pixar. The movie tells the story of love but has different elements: water, fire, clouds, and plants.

How do they make some love with their differences?

So, the first one is…

Ember… She is a girl with an elemental fire. She has a warm family in a shop owned by his father, and they run as a family.

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Yash Ember is a girl who doesn’t know about what love is; she has a father who doesn’t like the difference of love. Her father only needs Ember to become a successor of their shop. Because of that, Ember is constantly learning how to work in their shop, and she doesn’t believe in love with a difference until someone meets him…

That’s right. this is…

Wade… He is a boy from a harmonious family. He has an elemental water. He is a cheerful person and always loves their family.

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In their life, he is a good boy and very friendly to everyone. When he meets Ember at her shop, he doesn’t like her. And he doesn’t care about love. However, his family did not care about love with different elements. But when he began to talk with her and solve some problems that occurred together, love began to grow between them.

But have you ever thought that a fire can be united with water?

Aren’t these opposites that can’t be put together?

And is the difference long-lasting?

So, it also happens when someone with a different can’t come together. Many people think that making love with other people in different can’t last long. They are too afraid to start a relationship because they are different. Because of that, they choose not to make a relationship.

When, in fact…
a love with differences can complement each other

For example, as simple as different characteristics, they can learn more about their personalities, be more harmonious, and have personal growth and self-development. When we love someone different from us, we become more open to understanding different viewpoints and life experiences. Because of that, they can complement and help each other’s weaknesses with their strengths. And so many things, there are advantages of difference.

When two people with different backgrounds, interests, or outlooks love each other, it brings different perspectives into the relationship and paves the way for mutual learning, understanding, and growth.

The means of difference in love is…

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differences can bring us together…
differences can be a beautiful art…
differences can complement a flaw…
and differences can make love more meaningful…

Wow, so beautiful isn’t a love of difference??

And then, the part that shows the beautiful difference when…

Ember and Wade express their love for each other through these differences. They begin their love story by complementing each other’s differences, initially getting opposition from Ember’s father, but at a moment that shows that love with differences is beautiful.

Even love can break the belief that fire and water cannot come together.

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They proved that even the elements of fire and water could be united in a difference, which ultimately makes love very charming and beautiful.

“Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.”

— Paulo Coelho

So, we can take the gambling from this movie to mean that.

You can start without hesitation with the difference in love.

Love with differences is very complementary and truly beautiful.

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_zriel
Journal Kita

This is a collection of my stories struggling to be the best version of myself.