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INSIGHTS
You Don’t Have To Be A Victim Of Your Story
Learning contentment within chaos
You have been through a lot. I can feel you.
It is a testament that you hold deep insights about life and have made your interpretation out of your experiences.
What you make of your past often lasts throughout your entire life unless there is a paradigm shift in your mentality—your thinking pattern of living.
I have faced many rejections over the years, from the person I hold dreams of a combined future with to the place I wish to serve in the public service; I have seen people’s multiple faces, changing as the circumstances unfold, especially when it is something that they have an interests over, and people that become a wall to protect me for selfless motives.
I have been through, I have learned, and I know that in the future I will try to understand the deep interests of someone before trusting the person. This learning is from the story that I tell myself every day, and it now makes me who I am, and who I am going to be evolves into.
No matter what happens next, I don’t consider myself to be a victim of this life: this is because I don’t consider my purpose in people’s actions, but what I do with the meaning I have learned.