Woman’s life— Is There Such A Thing Being Too Independent?
“Forget about the fast lane. If you really want to fly, just harness your power to your passion.” — Oprah
A couple of weeks back a guy told me, I am too independent and it seems I have everything in my life anyone could aspire to have. Further, he added, he is lacking in certain aspects of his life and feels a bit behind than I am in my life. And it really struck a chord with me, well, actually quite a few chords.
I don’t know what to say and how to respond. They view me as if I don’t need anything, to them my life boxes are ticked, and theirs aren’t. Which is crap as they don’t know how I feel about my life and where I believe I can go and tick more boxes or what boxes I feel are empty.
Yes, I am single, live alone and I need to be self-dependent and take care of my all types of need.
If you ask me if I like it being independent, Hell YES!, and sometimes No.
It made me look at my life through the lens of others, and yes, I have come to a place where many of the so-called life’s boxes are ticked. I have cultivated this life by myself independently.
How I view success in my life
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