10 Essential Skills Every Young Woman Should Develop for Career Success

Katrina Delos Reyes
K. Mae EmpowerHer Coaching
4 min readJul 31, 2023

Hey there, you ambitious boss babes! Are you ready to face the career craziness and pave your way to success? In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, it’s essential to equip yourself with the right skills and mindset to thrive. Whether you’re just starting out in your professional journey or looking to level up, we’ve got you covered. Here are 10 essential skills every young woman should develop for career success. Let’s dive in!

1. Own Your Authentic Self:

Confidence is key. Believe in your authentic self and your abilities. Seriously — embrace your unique strengths, skills, and experiences. Own your accomplishments and let your confidence shine through in everything you do. Don’t fall into the trap of what people expect or what seems like the “norm” in your industry. Be YOU and own it, and then you’ll see your work environment mold around what’s fit for you.

2. Listen to Yourself Speak:

Master the art of effective communication. Be clear, concise, and assertive in expressing your thoughts and ideas. Don’t like, say like, you like everything, like all the time, ya know, like this? Seek out speaking and presentation opportunities both in the workplace and out. Throughout this time, record yourself speaking and play it back to figure out what your “um” words are. Then get rid of them. Listen actively to others, ask thoughtful questions, and build strong professional relationships through effective communication.

3. Take Initiative When Others Don’t:

Develop your leadership skills, regardless of your current position. Show initiative, take responsibility, and inspire others with your vision and passion. Step up and seize opportunities to lead, whether it’s through project management, team collaboration, or mentorship. It doesn’t matter if you’re an entry level individual contributor or even an intern. You’d be surprised how many people just sit back and do the bare minimum. Go just a tad above and beyond and you’ll reap so many benefits.

4. Be a Chameleon:

The ability to adapt to change is crucial in today’s dynamic work environment. Embrace new technologies, embrace different work styles, and be open to learning and growing. Be flexible, agile, and ready to embrace new challenges with a positive mindset. Hone in on your inner chameleon!

5. Figure Out the Hard Problems:

Become a problem-solving superstar! Cultivate a proactive and solution-oriented approach. Develop critical thinking skills, analyze situations from different angles, and come up with innovative solutions. Show your employers that you’re a resourceful problem solver. Don’t be afraid to question “the way things have always been done”. Seldom have great ideas come to life when sticking to the status quo. Also — stay smart. Keep yourself with it in the head to figure out the things other people can’t wrap their heads around.

6. Prioritize the Things That Fill Your Cup:

Efficiently manage your time to maximize productivity and maintain work-life balance. Prioritize tasks, set deadlines, and create a schedule that works for you. Find your own rhythm, utilize productivity tools, and create boundaries to avoid burnout. Figure out what fills your cup, how much time those things take to keep your cup full, and then prioritize them daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, etc. You’ll be much happier when you put you first and still cross things off your to-do list.

7. Feel It and Release It:

Embrace emotional intelligence as a superpower. Develop self-awareness, empathy, and the ability to manage your emotions effectively. Understand and connect with others on a deeper level, foster healthy relationships, and navigate workplace dynamics with grace. One of the most transformative things that happen as you grow into adulthood is unpacking all that childhood trauma and (hopefully) turning it into something good. It’s pretty freaking cool how much more accepted going to therapy is nowadays. Learn how to feel the different emotions that you may encounter during the workday, don’t let the negative ones paint the rest of your day red, and empathize with others when they aren’t being their best selves.

8. Keep the Brain Juices Flowing:

Never stop learning! Invest in your personal and professional development. Seek out new skills, certifications, and knowledge to stay ahead of the game. Embrace a growth mindset and cultivate a hunger for lifelong learning. I’m sorry to say that learning doesn’t stop at school. Only you can know how much of your personal time is worth it to spend on learning new things but just know that however much you dedicate, you’ll gain so much benefit.

9. Keep Meeting Other Badasses:

Build a strong professional network. Attend industry events, connect with like-minded professionals, and cultivate meaningful relationships. Network both online and offline, and leverage these connections to gain insights, opportunities, and support. Don’t get me wrong — networking burnout is real. Find the balance that works for you and be open to trying new things. You never know who you’ll meet at a Meetup event, tech talk, or conference!

10. Learn to Get Back Up:

Last but not least, develop resilience. Embrace challenges, setbacks, and failures as opportunities for growth. Bounce back, stay determined, and learn from every experience. Embrace resilience as the secret ingredient to your success. Super cliche but there’s no better way to say it — when life knocks you down, learn to get back up.

You have immense potential to thrive in your career and make a lasting impact. By developing these essential skills — confidence, effective communication, leadership, adaptability, problem-solving, time management, emotional intelligence, continuous learning, networking, and resilience — you’ll be well-equipped to navigate the ever-evolving professional landscape. Embrace these skills, believe in yourself, and let your light shine as you embark on your journey to career success. The world is yours for the taking, so go out there and make it happen with that boss energy!

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Katrina Delos Reyes
K. Mae EmpowerHer Coaching

Hi! I’m a technology strategist by day, dance teacher by night, avid hiker by weekend, and Founder and Director of &TECH all other times. katrinadelosreyes.com