The Secret Power of Friendship

Kang Som Kachonseree
KangSom Insight
Published in
3 min readOct 1, 2018

Yes, today we could seek for Life Coach, Counsellor, Therapist, Teacher, Guru, and so on. Many more advanced and complication. All these roles are amazing of course! I love to play these roles as well. But you know, at the end, the Essence of them comes to the same Oneness Truth — Friendship.

“two woman holding pink petaled flowers” by Daiga Ellaby on Unsplash

Friendship is the best thing we could offer to anyone or anything as a human. It’s the Beauty of Human Nature, or the Nature itself so to speak.

We are here to be your friends. Not to change you. Not to help you. Because we believe so much that you have Power and tremendous Internal Resource & Wisdom within you to be the best version of You, to share Your being & presence in every single present moment. Unique and Oneness. So Beautiful. So True. So Natural.

I connect to you and you connect to me. We become One. All the joy & intimacy, pain & cries, we All share. You learn the most important lesson for you from our connection. Same. I do learn the most important lesson for me from our connection. Give & Take exist and does not exist. Interconnectedness.

I have the same honor & respect for you that I have for myself. I am happy, perfect, whole and complete and I share myself with you. So when we share ourselves without greed, without hungry, without hatred, there could only be One thing left… “Pure love”. I love you so much that I and you fade away. Only LOVE left. Sharing the Being with you is the best gift of the presence. When we remember our most natural state, there is an honey in our eyes, a feather in our hand, a lotus petal in our feet, a warm loving aura from our connection. Yes, we are One. This is how interconnected we are. Flowing. We stopping struggling to Grow, we just Glow. Shine love & light of our normal perfection of imperfection as a Human being, not more or less. It is not about getting from A to B. It is about Remembering. Oh dear friends. Welcome to the Tribe.

Yes, you are unique, beautiful, and full of great qualities. Right when we meet you, we would love to take you with us. We want you to be with us forever. But we know when we cut your flower from your branch, you will soon die. We can’t put you in our cage. We can’t put you in our jar. We want to share your being of “Aliveness”. So of course, We let you go, be Free, lover, be Free. So that you can shine your best tree, best flower, best fruit in your own timing and your own way.

Yes, We are here to appreciate your beauty. Oh you are amazing. Friendship is amazing.

Why do you stop by? Why do you help me?

Honestly..

No reason.

“I just want to be your Friend.”

May all part of you be seen.

May all voice of you be heard.

May all self of you be embraced.

May the warm light of loving awareness shine through and forth for understanding, compassion and mindfulness.

Have you realized how precious you are?

You are the Buddha/Christ/God/Nature to me. I am he Buddha/Christ/God/Nature to you. Every moment is nothing but Nature of Truth (Dharma). And Together We are One Community of all loving being (Sangha). I love you. Love. One.

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