You are Loved & Cared for
There is a hungry ghost inside us. The ghost who endlessly seek for love and care. And at the same time she is fearful and scared of love and care.
There are so many means for the ghost to find energy. She has been struggling. “Obsessiveness with people and event” here it comes.
The great mantra to channel these energy of hungry ghost is the words
“You are Loved & Cared for”

Then, the struggle stops. The search stops. The attachment slows and loosens.
Or else we create new dream, new story. The heavenly dream or sometimes the hell on Earth. We don’t know that it is a dream. When we move our point of perception. Nothing really make sense anymore, the dream change because it is not the real truth.
The Art to Wholehearted Relationship
Relationship with ourselves is the same as the one with others. Don’t mistaken other act and don’t take the ownership. They are/do something not because of you but because of them.
It goes beyond personal level. It is so intimate and at same time so free.
Relationship become beautiful when we center ourselves in the Divine. Our speech become holy. The body, mind, feeling, memory and consciousness is a Temple of God and Buddha and Universe.
When we act from love it is all great. Anything arising from fear has some message we have to learn. We don’t need to push ourselves to learn though. Just let it sink down then the mind will understand when the timing is right.
People we are attract to ( in any level: romance, friend, teacher, so on) are always carrying important message for us to decode. The connection is very miraculous and meaningful if we just open our eyes wider.
Relationship is not even about giving and receiving anymore. It more like becoming One. Together any people anything could become One at anytime anyplace.
We see the Buddha, the God within others too so we listen very deeply at all the things happening.
Sometimes we pick up thoughts from the air. Nothing can be hidden under the clear eye, clear mind. Stillness and emptiness within would help us SEE.
We let go of who we think we were and keep letting go.
We serve endlessly to ourselves and to others. In service with the being of loving awareness then it is not much about What we are doing anymore. It is beyond form. We could be doing anything so good but if our being is not center, we are not happy. We could be doing something seemingly not so good, not so wise, not so cool but if our being is in align with the Truth, the Universe,we will be happy and grounded. Without the need for confirmation from anyone or anything.
Fame and popularity brings identity. Sometimes people start to put each other in the cage, in the fix frame of perception which is never true. We are constantly flowing. New identity forms and breaks apart every moment. So illusional. Allows them to be free, free from our perception. No need to add anymore complication. Life become real, simple and free. Hoo Ray ~ Celebration!
Saying good bye is just another celebration of our relationship. Good bye is not real. Reality is non-linear. How can it be linear when we could experience past present future at the moment. Also, we always find each other in heart anyways. We are never apart, rather we are a part of each other.
Keep dancing with the freshness of the moment. Attachment kills happiness. Let it go then we will know anything that happens next will be just another celebration and we will be happy too. Happiness in the past, present and future only when we surrender our clinging to the things that are NOT real. Of course,we will feel the edge, the resistant, the unease when there is a sense of change or instability. Or during the day we have no plan, sometimes it is uncomfortable to revisit the truth that we are not in control of anything. More and more trust. More and more openness.
The effortless effort or the act of not-reacting, not-doing, is an amazing practice. Shifting into the Divine and just enjoy.
