A New Perspective on Twin Flame Relationships
A new approach to tackling the inner shadow issues
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During the twin flame journey, try to imagine your other half as your ego.
When your twin flame enters a period of confusion or anxiety, the following situations may occur.
I have always advocated for emotional desires and have always hoped that everyone finds their twin flame. At certain times, your twin flame is like your ego; it is beneficial for your progress, but you should not overly feed the ego (which is also your inner shadow).
The greatest flaw of the ego is its insatiable desire, never-ending. When you are low on energy, you cannot empty yourself to feed it; otherwise, you both will sink together.
In your unclear moments, the other half is like your inner shadow, wanting rapid expansion. He wants more, but he will make you feel fear, or a sense of powerlessness, threatening you to give or morally blackmailing you to give, which does not work.
In a twin flame relationship, you both give to each other. Remember this.
Desires indeed allow us to experience more and feel a greater truth. The twin flame journey precisely avoids nihilism.
Your existence and your other half’s existence represent yin and yang. Therefore, you can think of it as the part that wants to expand more. You can give it energy, but do not let it control you.
The correct approach is to give only when you can ensure your own well-being; otherwise, it will be a mutual emptying, turning love into hate.
When the focus of this shadow is on your side, the situation is different.
You will find that when you endlessly want to give a lot of things you think are good to the other person, the other person does not want them.
They will avoid or resist, making you feel like you want to avoid it too. You think you are being kind, but you give so much that the other person does not need. You start to belittle yourself.
At this time, isn’t there also a feeling of, “I have done so much, I feel so wronged, why can’t they understand my series of thoughts?”
This is precisely the thinking and action under the control of your ego. Do you still remember what you wanted at the beginning? Didn’t you want to truly feel the process of giving love?
Giving what others need, not what you think they need, is the key. So if you feed your ego and it controls you, it will turn out this way.
If you were balanced and lived in harmony, this situation would not occur.
So now I suggest that highly spiritual people, regardless of which situation is happening above, need only one action: to stay still. You don’t need to give; there is nothing more to give.
The only thing to do is to calm down and become clear-headed.
At this time, the ego may frequently lure your soul, making you restless. This is like an addiction, like eating delicious high-calorie foods like milk tea and fried chicken, which do not provide the energy your body needs.
But if you stop for two days, you won’t crave it as much.
It is the same in a twin flame relationship. I hope everyone who finds another version of themselves has a long-term relationship. This is a slow and steady process; do not let it become overly frantic, understand?
Twin flame practice is a long-term endeavor, not something for today, tomorrow, or the day after.
May everyone gain wisdom and strength in their journey of true love.
