Song of Songs: The Bible’s Romance Manual for Marriage

Learning from the wisest man who ever lived

Oludare E. Mustapha (D. T. R.)
Koinonia
2 min readMar 27, 2024

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Introduction

Often referred to as "Song of Solomon" or "Canticles," the Song of Songs holds a unique place in Scripture as it delves into the realm of romantic love within marriage. Let’s delve into its depths and discern how Christ’s presence subtly permeates its verses.

Purpose

While numerous scriptures touch on aspects of human sexuality and marital relationships, the Song of Songs uniquely explores the theme of romantic love within marriage. Unlike other biblical texts that primarily address regulations and commands regarding marital conduct, the Song of Songs celebrates the joyful and intimate dimensions of love shared between a husband and wife.

Through its poetic narrative, it affirms the beauty of romantic love as a divine gift to be cherished and enjoyed within the sanctity of marriage, countering misconceptions that may view it negatively or repressively. By emphasizing the delight and mutual affection expressed by the wife, the text portrays a positive and affirming perspective on sexual intimacy, earning its title "The Bible’s Romance Manual for Marriage."

Drawing inspiration from the creation account in Genesis 2:18–25 and the enduring nature of love described in its verses, the Song of Songs offers timeless wisdom on the importance of nurturing and celebrating the bond between spouses.

Story

The Song of Songs weaves themes of desire, commitment, and overcoming obstacles within the context of a passionate love between a bride and groom.

Its timeless narrative underscores the enduring nature of true love and its relevance across cultures and epochs.

“Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If one were to give all the wealth of one’s house for love, it would be utterly scorned.” (Song of Songs 8:7, NIV)

Original historical setting

Attributed to King Solomon, likely during the early years of his reign around 965 BC, Song of Songs was penned for the Israelites dwelling in their homeland.

Christ in Song of Songs

The profound love depicted between husband and wife in the Song of Songs serves as a glimpse of the boundless love God holds for His people.

“One of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and said to me, “Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.” (Revelation 21:9, NIV)

Furthermore, Paul draws parallels between the marital bond and the relationship between Christ and the church, emphasizing the sacrificial and transformative nature of Christ’s love (Ephesians 5:32).

Summary

In vivid language, a bride and groom rejoice in the divine gift of their love, celebrating the passion of its physical, emotional, and spiritual dimensions.

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