Why Physical Intimacy is Essential in a Christian Marriage
Lessons from a busy husband
As I sat in church on Sunday morning, I couldn’t help but think about my own marriage and the role that sex and intimacy play in it. It’s something that is often talked about in hushed tones if it’s talked about at all, and yet it is such an integral part of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
I remember when my wife and I first got married. We were both filled with excitement and anticipation for what the future held. We were in love and couldn’t wait to start our lives together. But as the years went on, something changed.
The passion that once burned bright began to fade, and sex and intimacy became something that we did out of obligation rather than desire.
It wasn’t that we didn’t love each other, but rather that we had become complacent in our relationship. We were both so focused on our careers and raising our children that we had stopped putting effort into our marriage. We stopped making time for each other and stopped prioritizing our physical and emotional connection.
It wasn’t until I read a passage from the Bible that it all clicked for me. In the Song of Solomon, it says:
“Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth — for your love is more delightful than wine.” (Song of Solomon 1:2)
This passage reminded me of the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and the role it plays in expressing and strengthening our love for each other.
It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and let intimacy fall by the wayside.
But the truth is sex and intimacy are essential in a healthy and happy marriage. It’s not just about the physical pleasure but also about the emotional and spiritual connection it brings. It’s a way to express our love and affection for each other, and it’s a way to connect on a deeper level.
It’s not just about having sex. Intimacy also involves small acts of affection, like holding hands, cuddling, and hugging. It’s about making time for each other and showing our spouses that they are loved and desired.
For me, realizing the importance of sex and intimacy in my marriage was a wake-up call. I realized that I had been neglecting an important aspect of my relationship and that it was time to make a change. I made a conscious effort to prioritize my wife and our physical and emotional connection, and it has made all the difference.
Our marriage is stronger than ever, and I am grateful for the reminder that sex and intimacy are essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. I hope that by sharing my story, I can encourage other couples to prioritize their physical and emotional connection and to never take it for granted.
So, it is very important for Christian couples to prioritize sex and intimacy in their marriage and to never take it for granted. It is a way to express and strengthen their love for each other and to connect on a deeper level.
In conclusion, sex and intimacy are crucial for a healthy and happy marriage. They are not just about physical pleasure but also about the emotional and spiritual connection they bring.
As Christian couples, it is important to prioritize this aspect of our relationships and never take it for granted.
“Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4).
This verse reminds us of the sacredness of the marriage bed and the importance of keeping it pure. It is a reminder to prioritize and protect intimacy in our marriages.
One specific way that my wife and I have prioritized our physical and emotional connection is by setting aside time for date nights. We make sure to carve out time just for each other, away from the distractions of work and children. We use this time to connect and rekindle the spark in our relationship.
Another way we prioritize intimacy is by regularly expressing love and affection toward each other. Simple acts like holding hands or giving a hug can go a long way in strengthening our bond.
In the end, it’s about making a conscious effort to prioritize our spouse and our relationship. By putting effort into our physical and emotional connection, we can cultivate a strong and fulfilling marriage that is built on love, respect, and intimacy.
Christian couples should always prioritize sex and intimacy in their marriage and make a conscious effort to strengthen their bond. By doing so, they can cultivate a strong and fulfilling marriage that is built on love, respect, and intimacy.
