It’s important to explore your sexual compatibility
Before you make a major commitment, it’s crucial that you explore the sexual compatibility you share with your partner.
by: E.B. Johnson
Sexual compatibility is an important part of most relationships, yet we often overlook it or push it to the side. When it comes to sexual intimacy, we have a tendency to downplay its importance or rank it lower than concepts of romantic love or romantic gestures. While, for some, this prioritization might work — for others it can lead to a major divide in their partnerships. We have to take our sexual needs seriously and part of that takes exploring our sexual compatibility early on in our relationships.
Unless you feel an extreme attachment to some religious or cultural standard, you should start exploring your sexual compatibility as soon as you are comfortable with your partner. This allows us to bond on an even deeper level, but it also allows us to make some key identifications early on. There is nothing wrong with sex, and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying sex. The truly wrong thing is denying yourself healthy, consensual enjoyment of one another.
