How to protect yourself from an emotionally draining person

Does someone in your life leave you feeling exhausted and frustrated? You may be dealing with an emotionally draining relationship.

E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth
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9 min readDec 27, 2020

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by: E.B. Johnson

Not every relationship in our lives is happy, rewarding, or fulfilling. Sometimes, the people we love most bring the most chaos and pain into our lives. We have to protect ourselves from these emotionally draining connections and understand the importance of putting our happiness (and our mental health) up front as a priority.

Are you building a life with someone who is only nice when they want something? Do they emotionally manipulate you, use you, or otherwise make you feel as though you only serve a purpose in their lives when they need you? All of these are signs of a relationship which wears us down emotionally and detracts from our quality of life. In order to find happiness again, we have to set boundaries and start protecting ourselves the right way.

Some relationships are a lot of work.

The relationships we share with others are important, and they are filled with ups and downs which must be managed with compassion and understanding. While some people we bring into our lives…

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth

NLPMP Coach | Writer & Content Creator | Sharing my knowedge with the world ⭐️ https://linktr.ee/ebjohnson01