The mindsets that land us in bad relationships

To break the patterns, you’re going to have to reprogram your brain and replace your beliefs.

E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth
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10 min readOct 1, 2021

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by: E.B. Johnson

Are you someone who has kissed a lot of frogs without finding a prince? Maybe you cycle through bad relationship after bad relationship. Or maybe you keep falling back into the same patterns that you watched your mother and father fall into. When we can’t break out of these self-sabotaging cycles, we end up developing beliefs and mindsets that keep us there. If you want the freedom of relationships that are fulfilling and fair, then you have to reshape these beliefs. Getting out of these mindsets determines the quality of our relationships moving forward.

The mindsets that land us in bad relationships.

Once you go through a couple of bad breakups, or a couple of traumatic relationships, you end up developing beliefs about what relationships mean in general. These beliefs form the basis of our overall mindsets. When we go into the next relationship, and the next one, these mindsets decide how we settle, who we settle for, and the quality of our lives and needs. To get that healthy, fulfilling partnership you’ve been dreaming of, you must acknowledge your wrong mindsets and set them…

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth

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