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Late to My Own Party

At 48, my world was turned completely upside down when I received a life-changing ADHD diagnosis. Late to My Own Party offers personal reflections on life with ADHD, critical analysis of research issues, helpful resources, support, insights, and general frivolity.

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  • The Five Stages of Grief Applied to My ADHD

    The Five Stages of Grief Applied to My ADHD

    Grief isn’t just experienced in connection with death. It’s real here, too.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Mar 26
    I Was Never Built for a Normal Workplace

    I Was Never Built for a Normal Workplace

    Now I understand 25+ years of round hole and square peg life.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Mar 10
    ADHD and the Hellscape That is a Restaurant Menu

    ADHD and the Hellscape That is a Restaurant Menu

    Let me tell you what I do to help me pass as an adult.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Mar 1
    ADHD Post-Medication Things I Now Celebrate

    ADHD Post-Medication Things I Now Celebrate

    Because I’m new to adulting, and I get to pat myself on the back.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Feb 23
    Flipping the Script on Negative Self Narratives

    Flipping the Script on Negative Self Narratives

    Because words matter no matter who says them.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Feb 19
    My Need to Apologize for My ADHD

    My Need to Apologize for My ADHD

    It’s like a 12-step program tour, but there’s only one step.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Jan 20
    Women with ADHD Are Not Pill-Popping Speed Freaks

    Women with ADHD Are Not Pill-Popping Speed Freaks

    The reality of what treatment means and looks like for us.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Jan 18
    40 Years of Unknowingly Living with ADHD

    40 Years of Unknowingly Living with ADHD

    This is the start. This is how I came to define my entire adulthood.
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    Vanessa Torre
    Jan 17
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