“Please RSVP” Sounds Fancy …

But it’s just redundant

Laura K. Lawless
Lawless French
1 min readJun 21, 2014

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The ubiquitous invitation acronym RSVP is short for répondez s’il vous plaît, which means “please respond” in French. So please don’t say “Please RSVP” unless you mean to beg: Please, please respond!

Interestingly, this acronym has passed out of favor in France, where it’s considered too formal and old-fashioned. Instead, the French say réponse souhaitée and then their preferred date and/or method of response.

A Point of Etiquette

  • RSVP — Respond whether your answer is yes or no
  • RSVP regrets only — Only respond if you will not attend; not responding is taken as a yes.

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Originally published at www.lawlessfrench.com on June 21, 2014.

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Laura K. Lawless
Lawless French

French fanatic, frequent traveler, voracious reader, vegan virtuoso. Full-time freelancer since 1999: virtual teacher, writer, blogger. lklawless.com