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How Casual Sex Altered My Ultimate Relationship Fantasy

My desires are changing as I fulfill old fantasies

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Several months ago, I began constructing a new sexual fantasy that became almost a fixation for quite a long time. In it, I would meet someone I barely knew in a hotel room and we’d have sex all night. The kind of sex that I could instruct, that I could lead, that I could demand. The…




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