Moms vs. Aunts: A Social Media Smackdown
Can we stop with the pronatalist propaganda, please?
My baby is turning two today! I cannot believe I ever thought I knew anything about what it means to love a child when I was just an aunt. I didn’t know anything. I only learned how to be a selfless person by becoming a mother, and this little girl is the angel who gave me that gift. I laugh at myself now, to think of how foolish I was to think I knew anything as an aunt. Motherhood, friends, is the real deal. #nogreatercalling
This is what greeted me when I reactivated my personal Facebook account after a recent (and blissful) two month break. It was posted by my cousin, who, unlike me, stayed in L.A. and, also unlike me, achieved “normal female milestones,” like getting married and having two babies before the age of 30.
I read her post twice, allowing myself an exaggerated eye roll with the second reading. I’m so over this. I see posts like this all the time from friends and family who are in those milk-drunk early years of babies and toddlers: proclamations about how amazing motherhood is and how silly, immature, and socially irrelevant women are (themselves, included) before they become mothers.
This one, however, was the first one I’ve seen that specifically called out how insignificant aunthood is compared…
