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Why I’m Reluctant to Make Peace with Exes

I want to be loving — but I owe that love to myself, first

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Something happened the other day, something not so good. A semi-emergency that would have caused me to have to surrender a large portion of my payout for the client work I was doing.

Thankfully, someone saved the day: my ex-lover.




I will write until I’m free.

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