Relationship
Infatuation or Real Love
We all know how the levels in our life changes, how we run from an Infant to the tyke, then to a younger age then to my favorite Adolescence age group, this is the best time for everything. To better your skills, to be a champion in your high school, to hide those blushing cheeks, seeing your secret crush. I know many people who will never accept the fact that they received a crush at Adolescence age but indeed I consider everyone possesses. As it was the blossoming period of my life indeed. At that time we are not able to show our feelings outside, what we do usually is cherish the feeling by hiding it. It is never considered love because you are not in a serious relationship at that fourth dimension you just wish a person want to grin or just to talk, nothing more commitments are needed at that time. As soon as you cross the age barrier you will cross in the list that at high school you had a deep crush on that guy and that’s it . It will be history then.
And then get the next phase when school is over and college begins, we get magnetically attached to faces, by faces I mean to say we fell in love with the appearance. That is basically an infatuation, but we consider it love and there we go knock up! Entrapped in a cage when the charm of appliance is lost, complication to get down, we don’t know what the reason is? but I induce my own belief about it. They are bored with one another as they don’t abide each others values their likes and dislikes don’t match, gradually distance between them increases. What you accept to do is sort out things in your heart and ask yourself whether it’s your real love or not, or are you happy in that relationship? Are you really you? or just pretending to be one.
Once you are clean in your mind, then you will recognize that it was not love it was just an infatuation. If being in that relationship you are attracted to some other individual by his nature, his decorum, he is pleasing you the way he/she treats you.Then you must identify that you are not in real love. You go into it because you didn’t think about anything else you didn’t think about likes and dislikes. You didn’t consider about the future you both are dying to share. Either it might occur that you would absolutely go with your infatuation and gradually you deeply fell in love. But that might happen very seldom. Only if you are not feeling well or you are losing your identity that means you do not own a real love, because what real love is.
Real Love is when you feel the satisfaction in your heart, when you know that you can rely on that person. Though you have different likes, though you people have different nature, but the love you share the moment you create is more out of the world. You know you are imperfect and you can partake in your imperfection with your perfect person. You both really know that you can’t be without each other, despite of torturing you on some talks, he/she also acknowledges what you genuinely like, they always look for your happiness will always protect you from every uncertain thing. Will guide you. Will love you, will fill a corner in your tenderness that was vacant before you saw him/her.
You are going to observe the sense of satisfaction in your heart and thus you can declare that it is not an infatuation. It is Love where you can stand with his believes his care and your identity matters a lot to him, you are you but in a new and better way.
